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Be safe 12/31/2004
I am extermely cautious who I date, the men I date are recommended
by friends. First time meetings are somewhat a roll of the
dice, but I'm a good judge of a person. Pepper spray
takes the fight right out of a man to give you a head start
if all else fails.
1 Comments, 159 Views,
20 Votes
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WE agree 12/23/2004
After much discussion with my wife we agreed on some guidelines
if our "Date" ever happened, they seem like
words to live by...Did we miss anything?
1. Meet in a public place.
2. Always wear what they are not looking for so you can walk
away if they seem "Shady".
3. NO ..If you want you can give them the number
of a restaraunt you'll be at.
4. NEVER GO TO "THEIR" PLACE, always use a ...
5 Comments, 350 Views,
43 Votes
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Always let some one know 12/17/2004
Hi, its one thing to be spontanious and free, but its another
to play it un safe. I think its a good idea to always let someone
know where you are at all times, especially if your meeting
someone alone for the first time.
4 Comments, 154 Views,
56 Votes
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Modern Technology and Safety 12/16/2004
Most of us today have cell phones, and we should not be afraid
to use them as a tool in keeping ourselves safe. On a first
date, especially if you have never met before, it is wise
to meet in a public place, and to also make sure someone else
knows where you are. However, you can also use your cell
phone to be even safer...have your friend call you say an
hour into the date...if all is ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
23 Votes
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Her Choice 12/16/2004
I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females
wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true
to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for
a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will
meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will
feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that
she bring a friend if she ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
14 Votes
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Remember 12/14/2004
Just a quick reminder guys-this can be a fairly scary thing
for a lot of women/men. A lot of us are new to this,
Start slow-it will pay off in the end.
2 Comments, 233 Views,
45 Votes
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Background check 12/13/2004
Would you invest in a background check for someone you met
on here? It's probably best, esp. for the ladies.
<br>
http://passion.com
professional service providing background investigations
and personal profiles. Some of the information they will
check into for you - SSN, marital information, addresses,
, relatives & associates, property
deeds, bankruptcy, judgments, liens, ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
19 Votes
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Tips for meeting online, esp. for the ladies 12/13/2004
When you do decide to meet someone whose company you enjoy
online, meet in a public place and bring your friends. Your
online buddy will understand and accomodate your wishes
if they are honest about their intentions towards you.
If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use
your own car.
<br>
Don't agree to hiking dates or meetings in remote areas
until you know ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
37 Votes
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what's too much to ask? 12/1/2004
i'm having a very difficult time finding ways to bridge
the gap between flirting, building an email friendship
and simultaneously determining the safety practices
and history of the people (men) i'm communicating
with. it seems to me that meeting from an anonymous state
would make thid dialog the most obvious first steps yet
it still seems so taboo to mention, as if there's aconversation ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
34 Votes
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If you want a date 11/30/2004
If you want to fuck me do not let the size of your cock bother
you. They all feel great and I can bet you my pussy feels great
to all of you.SO if you want the best twat going around come
and get you some
1 Comments, 148 Views,
50 Votes
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Safe Sex and One Night Stand Girls 11/29/2004
I read a story in a profile of a young Hispanic woman from
California here on One Night Stand Girls (her profile name is "justyournympho")
who said she met three men at a hotel, and then they immediately
went to the hotel room and had sex. She implied that she spoke
to these men before the hotel meeting. No mention in her
profile of condom use or meeting these guys prior to their
supposed sex encounter. In ...
2 Comments, 172 Views,
58 Votes
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keep ur head up.... 11/27/2004
I have met 30some people from this site....be sure to "make
a connection" with them, get to know how they act under
all different situations. Talk to them online and on the
phone for a while until u know them well enough to meet up.......BE
CAREFUL!!!!! Some people are really weird......just
make sure you know what your doing....
1 Comments, 156 Views,
62 Votes
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DO's for safe dating 11/25/2004
Take the time to get to know someone at first by phone is a
great way to start talk a few times then if comfortable set
up a meeting in a public place or club safety is best policy
always.
7 Comments, 107 Views,
74 Votes
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What every woman should know and practice 11/20/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
<br>
<br>
<br>
Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for the ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
42 Votes
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Survival signals for women 11/20/2004
The Gift of Fear
<br>
and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
<br>
By Gavin de Becker
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The following is taken from pages 210-212.
<br>
There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has several of
these ...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
35 Votes
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Even if your married.... 11/16/2004
Even if your married try to chose some one who you know can
keep a secret. I know that I trust one of my relatives to keep
my secrets.If I go out on a date I call her and give her the
guys cell number, what we will be driving and where we will
be going. If I dont contact her in a certain amount of time,
she might think that something has happened.
Its nice to make sure things are descrete, ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
75 Votes
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lets join 11/13/2004
Hi just checking this thing really works???
2 Comments, 16 Views,
41 Votes
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I'm newly single. What to look for? 11/9/2004
I'm scared to go to bars. My girlfriend was slipped a "roofie"?
and taken back to her appartment and . They also poisened
her with terpentine in the same drink.
<br>
It's crazy and it's scary out there. What are your suggestions???
2 Comments, 78 Views,
43 Votes
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First meetings on One Night Stand Girls 11/9/2004
Any previous experiance / hints on first time meetings
through One Night Stand Girls would be very much appreciated. Thanks.
0 Comments, 45 Views,
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couple more tips 11/8/2004
I meet guys from One Night Stand Girls for sex frequently. While not completely
foolproof, the risk is lessened.
<br>
My number one rule, completely unbreakable, is that the
person MUSt give me his first and last name AND a phone number,
which I call. It's not foolproof, but one thing I pay
attention to is how he REACTS to the request. Guys that get
pissy or angry make me wonder why they dont ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
69 Votes
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Best way 11/4/2004
I'm 50 and never been with a man is there any one that
can tell me how I should let the first man enter my ass{ie}
standing and what type lude should I use. THANKS
2 Comments, 57 Views,
33 Votes
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Shady People 11/3/2004
My husband and I were meeting a couple at a bar one night.
The couple comes in and we meet and talk for a while, we start
to feel comfortable with them and dance for a while and head
back to their place. once we get to their place, there are
about 4 guys waiting there, all with cocks in hands, and
the couple states that they were sure we wouldnt mind if
some people watched. Make sure you ...
1 Comments, 159 Views,
99 Votes
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Lifestyle Safety, Security and Privacy 11/2/2004
So you want to enter the lifestyle?.. Well thats fantastic
!! So providing that you acted 'responsibly'
and took some time to read up on the issue, as well as, opened
up a permanent dialogue with your spouse, we would like
to mention a few things about safety, security, and overall
privacy and discretion.
<br>
We are a bicpl (very fit/sexy) who have been in this lifestlye
that ...
1 Comments, 74 Views,
58 Votes
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Sad isn't it.... 11/2/2004
You talk to someone... you think they're great...
So why not meet *and here it's all about sex* but even
in normal settings...
You have to prepare..
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1. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS tell your friends where you'll
be and until when.
2. Limit the 1st date, to drinks or coffee in a public place.
(If goes well you can always meet again for longer somewhere
else)
3. Always set up a ...
1 Comments, 52 Views,
58 Votes
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hard feelings 10/30/2004
we have been in different situations that have ended in
tears for her, and embarrasement for us both, When you
say no thanks, and the others are a little more persistent
than average, how to you get them to understand while leaving
no bad emotions?
3 Comments, 45 Views,
39 Votes
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The "NEW" Drink Carry-Method! 10/22/2004
Ladies (& Gentlemen too!!!) I have been prompted by
a friend about what is termed the "NEW" drink
carry when in clubs or at parties....
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It is when you carry the drink dead in front of your chest.
You actually put your hand over the top of the cup/glass/chalis---and
carry it like you are holding it directly in front of your
chest/heart area....
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Why?
<br> ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
103 Votes
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condoms 10/17/2004
no glove no love.....get it got it good. there is some dirty
shit out there. be carefull
1 Comments, 10 Views,
51 Votes
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Call Girls- Are they worth it? 10/9/2004
I want the men opinion on calls girls. I am a naught girl myself and the way i see it is a lot cheaper way to go for a sure thing. I did the exotic dance thing and at the end of the night a guy would have spent several hundered dollars on beer and lap dances just to maybe see and smell some pussy (and maybe sneek a touch in). Or you go into a bar and try all the best lines and still come up with ...
6 Comments, 92 Views,
63 Votes
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is there a sex addicts help centre??? 10/4/2004
Is there such a thing as too much sex?
To me, No there is never enough.
When do you know you have a problem?
Is it when u lay in bed half the day naked writhing in pleasure?
Or on your knees with a hot cock in your mouth in the middle of the kitchen, dark roads, cars and anywhere u can get it?
Sex is my life… it’s all-good but never enough.
Anyone have any ideas?
Like 2 ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
29 Votes
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Why even bother? 10/3/2004
Hey, whats up everyone? I had my first One Night Stand Girls date last night. Just to let you know, I was chatting and getting to know this person through this site and by phone and through web cam. She definatly knew what I looked like at every angle possable so my question is to you all is why did this person set something up with me just to come over and back out of it. First of all, why go half way when ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
34 Votes
,6.30 Score |